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Forget the Glass Ceiling, Fix the Ladder

Looks about right. Photo Credit: Blogging about Business Women

I’ve struggled for a few years with the glass ceiling. We love to talk about the importance of women shattering the glass ceiling but here’s the thing, the ceiling is at the top, and first you have to want to get there. Not every woman wants to run for President of the United States or become the next CEO of a Fortune 500, run for Congress or even run a department – and that’s what I think of when we talk about shattering the glass ceiling. But most women want – and need – to keep working. (Fun Fact of the day: Did you know the U.S. Department of Labor created a Glass Ceiling Commission in 1991? It sadly went out of commission in 1996.)

It seems to me the crux of the issue is retaining talent and keeping women working so that there will be more of us to pick from to reach the glass ceiling, if and when the time comes. So isn’t it about the steps up the ladder to the ceiling that need more examination? I think so.

I’ve posted a few times in the past week on my Wired Momma FB page about the EU and how they are considering quotas to force companies to retain a certain percentage of women on their Boards. I just read the most recent article in the Economist, which noteworthy, has an extremely patronizing headline: “Women in Business: Waving a Big Stick.” Once I checked my repulsion with that unnecessarily snarky and sexist headline, I found the article interesting and informative.  Last year, Viviane Reding, the EU Justice Commissioner, asked publicly listed firms to pledge to increase the proportion of women on boards to 30 percent by 2015 and 40 percent by 2020.  According to the article, it’s now been a year and only 24 firms signed the pledge.  She isn’t yet calling for quotas but the speculation is that she’s heading in that direction. Currently she’s taking a very democratic approach and asking for a three-month public consult on getting more women into boards. Right now 13.7 percent of board members in large EU firms are women, up from 8.5 percent in 2003. That’s a pretty paltry increase in a decade. Think about the technological advancements alone we’ve seen in the last decade. People were still using dial-up in 2003. Now we walk around with our iPhones and iPads. Was Mark Zuckerberg even out of high school in 2003? So we can leap ahead technologically yet when it comes to advancing women in business, we remain stagnant? Sidebar – why does this surprise me when the current heated political debate for the Republicans right now is centered around women’s healthcare….

Meanwhile over in Norway, not an EU member, quotas were introduced almost a decade ago and now the Norwegians have 40 percent female representation on boards up from 9 percent in 2003.

Here in the United States, it’s safe to say we have an uncomfortable discourse about quotas. Humor me for a minute. Let’s remove people from the equation and consider how these big changes work among US companies. For instance, when our vehicles become more fuel-efficient, is it because the automakers volunteer to change their fleets or is it because the government mandates they achieve a certain level of fuel efficiency?

On my last check, the government keeps on increasing the required fleet wide average and imposing  fines on the auto companies if they don’t achieve higher standards of fuel economy by certain target years. They don’t just arbitrarily set higher standards, they invite public comment, they hold hearings, they engage with the automotive engineers and they work up a new agreement.

The auto industry isn’t the only industry regulated by the government – in essence – forced to be pushed in a new direction. Does everyone like it, especially those in the industry ? Not necessarily. Does it force change?

Yes. Why? Because money(in the form of fines) talks.

So why the skepticism with quotas? When you peel back the layers, how is it any different?  Why do we automatically assume a woman is invited to become a Board Member because of the quota instead of her achievements? Why don’t we, instead, assume the quota is necessary because the old way of thinking isn’t spurring necessary change??

Which brings me to my next point – about the glass ceiling and the broken ladder.

On Sunday, The Guardian ran a story about the Institute of Leadership and Management’s new study revealing that organizations in England are “filtering out” top female talent. Crotchety old male bosses take much of the brunt of the blame. Charles Elvin, head of the Institute, is calling for changes in attitudes and management processes. Topping the list: flexible working. The Institute says the issue isn’t the glass ceiling, the issue is the barriers along the way that filter out female talent.

And pray tell, what is the most notable barrier?

FLEXIBLE WORKING ARRANGEMENTS of course.

Did you really need me to tell you that.

The article notes how companies all have diversity programs yet still can’t seem to retain women. Big surprise there. The article reveals survey results finding that 68 percent of women and 42 percent of men identified flexible working as the number one solution.

I just don’t understand why in this age of the iPhone and instant internet access wherever we go, why flexibility is such a battle. Why is face time still so relevant? Do we  need the current wave of senior staff to retire before we can see this change in attitude? Do we need more MEN to not only ask for but also USE flex time as an option in their work place to help spur this change? Flexibility would have kept me in my previous job – without even a hesitation – but it wasn’t an option.

I think the other key issue here is this – there is a difference between a company offering flexible working arrangements and then a company encouraging employees (male and female) to actually utilize the flexibility..and then one step further…still promote and elevate those who do work around flexible schedules. Sure, you can claim anything but the proof is in the pudding, and if those who take the time aren’t ever promoted, then no one is going to take the time. A few years ago, I gasped in response to the very generous paternity leave my friend’s husband’s law firm offer its employees. Her response “Yeah, but taking that time off is the kiss of death.”

Therein lies the rub, we need companies to do more than talk the talk. My favorite quote from the article in the Guardian is this: Companies need to “focus on achieving objectives rather than sitting in your seat.”

You got that right.

Let us out of our seats, let us get our jobs done and not worry about where it’s being done, and maybe more women will stay on that ladder. For some really interesting stats on women in the United States in government and business, check out my friend Valerie Young’s piece.

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Life is short….so win some delicious cupcakes

That’s right, it’s turning into super fab give-away week here on Wired  Momma and you know I love a good theme. If losing weight topped your New Years Resolutions, then I suppose I could be sorry for working hard at sabotaging you, seeing as how this is my second cupcake give-away  just this year, but the truth is, I’m not sorry. Moi Loves Moi. Moi LOVES Cupcakes….and cake….and cheese….should I keep going?

Yummy cupcakes from Wildcard Confections

So back to cupcakes. Yesterday I connected with a new mom and business owner (another thing moi loves – locally owned female run businesses, of course!), Catherine Davis, owner and founder of Wildcard Confections. Catherine’s motto is “Life is short, eat dessert first,” and I couldn’t agree more. Her business is based in Virginia but she ships nationwide..so fret not kittens…even if you are an avid WM fan and you live somewhere way more exotic than the DC area, you can still enroll in this give-away and WIN!!!

Catherine is offering 2 dozen custom decorated cupcakes (a $60 retail value) – you got that right – two dozen cupcakes to one lucky winner! Here’s how you enter to win:

The winner will be selected via random draw on February 17, 2012. To enter all you have to do is send an email to wildcard9@live.com that contains your name, city, state and a phone number. Please reference “Cupcake Giveaway Entry” in the subject line.

Hurry up and enter friends…who doesn’t love cupcakes!! Especially free yummy ones?? And if you’re interested in winning those Disney on Ice tickets, you have only a few days left to enter to win, just “Like” and comment on my WM Facebook page.

It’s that time of year….Summer Camp Registration Frenzy

Admittedly, I am a little late getting this post up but it’s just so hard for me to wrap  my brain around summer camp in the winter time. Am I alone in my loathing of the frenzy that comes with summer camp registration and how it forces you to figure out summer vacations when you’re still putting away your holiday decorations? Seriously. Also my new struggle this year is finding the right camp for both my girls, now that my kindergartener claims she is too cool to return back to her old beloved pre-school, and coordinating the times/drop-offs, for each kid.

For the parents who need camp as daycare all summer long, my advice is to check out the new and free service called CampEasy. This is a free service started by a local mom and her husband. All you have to do is enter in your child’s age , what they like to do, and where you are located and searching for camps, and it pulls up all your options – it’s Camp one-stop-shopping.

Personally, I don’t need camps for the entire summer. In fact, last summer I adopted a very camp-light approach with some trepidation and, in the end, it was a great solution for me and my girls. They were finally old enough to play together and I learned that it makes my life more difficult when the older one is in camp because the younger one misses her. I still think camp is important, however, because everyone needs a break from each other and let’s face it – I’m not setting up the amazing crafting tables and themed weeks that you get from camp.

New to me this year is the camp over at Bethesda’s Kidville. After spending the last few weeks really enjoying the new Rockin’ Railroad Music class with my 3-year-old (I mean, a 4 piece band? Hello! Love it) – I’m intrigued by the themed camps being offered at Kidville for camp this summer.  You can pick from a menu of 2 week, 8 weeks, 12 weeks or a 16 week camp option.  First, for those with very little ones ages 18-24 months, it’s not easy to find summer camp options – but Kidville does offer them even at these young ages. The camps are separation optional for the younger ones (2s and young 3s), so ultimately it’s the parent’s decision when you can drop and roll out immediately. For the older kids: 3s, 4s and 5s, there’s no need to stick around (music to the summer-exhausted parent’s ear).

I’ve always struggled the most with camps in August, when it seems this entire town goes dark, even though the kids don’t start school until Labor Day (or in the case of pre-schools, well after Labor Day). So it’s the late summer camp option at Kidville that particularly appeals to me – the two week session in mid-late August. By then, it seems everyone has grown tired of the pool and it’s just too hot to hang out at the park for very long.  For the theme lovers out there, Kidville Bethesda also offers a one week specialty camp: Fairy Princess Camp or Super Hero Training Camp. Love it.

Bottom line: like it or not, now is the time to nail down the summer camp plans. At least it’s freakishly warm out this week – it makes it all seem a little less ridiculous!

Free Cupcakes & Crumbs Give-Away

Who doesn't want a care package of these delivered to them?

Loosen those pants and get ready for one of my fav give-aways yet! Delicious Crumbs bakery is opening 2 new locations in DC next week. And to celebrate, they will be giving away 1,000 free cupcakes beginning at Noon on Wednesday January 18. Their 2 new locations are:
1107 19th Street NW
L’Enfant Plaza Food Pavilion

But wait, there’s more! Continuing our theme of Moi Loves Moi in 2012, Moi also loves Vous….and several of you will receive care packages from Crumbs! All you need to do is Like my WM facebook page and post a comment under my FB post about this give-away and you will be entered. Hurry because one of my kiddos will pick the lucky cupcake winners before next Wednesday.

Moi loves cupcakes.